This resource is designed to give you a framework for lamenting longings and losses. We encourage you to use this as a guide as you pray or write down your lament. You can follow along with the steps below or you download PDF version.
1. Address God
Direct your lament to God, drawing Him into conversation about your longings and losses in prayer.
2. Complaint
- “You” complaint - How do you feel God has failed you?
- “They” complaint - How do you feel others have failed you?
- “I” complaint - How do you feel you have failed?
3. Confession
Confess your need for God’s grace and forgiveness in your life.
4. Ask God For Help
Name what you want God to do for you. Ask God for something as specifically and concretely as possible.
5. Affirm Trust In God
Affirm your trust in God and His leadership over your life. Imagine what God’s faithfulness might look like over this next year.
6. Promise To Praise God
What praise will you offer after God has shown up?